March may be cold, but it's hot and heavy here at OnMilwaukee.com as we celebrate our first-ever Sex Week. We're taking a mature look at local video and sex toy shops, area strip clubs, sexy Milwaukee events -- and even some connections between Brew City and Playboy magazine. It's serious, responsible, adult-themed content -- but don't worry, parents, we'll keep it PG-13 in case junior stumbles upon these stories as OnMilwaukee.com turns a pale shade of blue for seven days.

As a teenager, I remember finding people sexy based solely on their appearance. If they had the right clothing and the right look, they topped the list of attractive people in my book.

A s I got older, other qualities, like intelligence and sense of humor, became equally as important in the attraction equation.

Now, in my 30s, a lot of the people I find sexy are even less conventionally hot. To me, confidence is the sexiest quality of all, followed by realistic optimism – not too optimistic, but not too jaded, either.

I also find men who are great fathers to be quite sexy, particularly proud guys wearing their babies in baby carriers. Oh, don't even get me started on the sexy dad topic …

Now I wonder what I'll find sexy as I get older. I remember my husband's grandma being interested in a particular gentleman because he was one of the last men she knew who could still legally drive.

What do you find sexy?