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A Web site that helps scratch the 'seven-year itch'
AshleyMadison.com is a Web site catering to married / attached people looking for "a little on the side."
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Published March 10, 2009 at 8:26 a.m.
Tags: ashleymadison.com, noel biderman, avid life media, adultery, marriage

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When Biderman really gets rolling, he'll point out that AshleyMadison.com could be considered a "safe alternative" to workplace affairs, which can cost jobs, lying about marital status on other Web sites or visiting prostitutes.

"Physical intimacy is no different than requiring oxygen to breathe or water to drink," Biderman said. "If it's missing in your relationship, I don't care who you are, president of the United States or the prince of England, you're going to step outside your relationship. That's the bottom line."

Despite being shut out of the Super Bowl, the buzz about AshleyMadison.com continues advertise on other outlets and grow via old-fashioned word of mouth and the newer, viral manners associated with the Web.

"It's gone from 'This doesn't happen in my neighborhood and to my friends,' to, 'Hey, did you hear about this? Did you see that commercial?' '' Biderman said. "It has been semi-viral, in a way. These things pick momentum."

Biderman said that nearly 75 percent of his clients are male. He competes with a handful of other sites, including AdultFriendFinder.com, MarriedDateClub.com and even Craigslist.org.

"The difference with our site is that it's credit-based," he said. "It's driven by life's circumstances."

Instead of paying a monthly fee, members put money into a debit account and pay only when they interact with other users. For roughly $50, users receive 100 "credits," which can be used to open mail queries from interested members or to send "gifts" to people whose profiles spark interest. (The site sells 500 credits for $149 and 1,000 for $249 -- the latter package comes with a "money-back guarantee" that you will have an affair.

Biderman says his site is profitable, but will not state how many users are "just browsing" and how many fork over money to actually meet fellow members.

Given the copycat culture of the Web, Biderman knows that competitors will be coming. But, he's not particularly worried.

"There will probably some thin-slicing, like everything else on the Web," he said. "There may be segments for MILFs or sugar daddys or things like that. But, if someone thinks they can do it better, all I can say is 'Good luck.' When you think about it, there are thousands of sites on the Web that show videos, but there is only one YouTube."

Though his company is based in Canada, Biderman has customers in each of the 50 states, including several in Wisconsin.

"As you'd expect, we have big numbers in New York and California," he said. "But, we're also huge in Cleveland, South Florida, Atlanta and other places where we haven't done a lot of direct marketing."

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Posted by BrewCityTimmy on March 12, 2009 at 10:04 a.m. (report)

When did sex become a need? You can live a quite fulfilling life without ever having sex. I married my bride because I love her not so I could have a consistent sex outlet. If you just view your significant other only as a sex outlet then you have bigger issues than just perusing some website for people willing to drag the bottom of the barrel for a hook up. If you arent getting some go get some counseling, take your wife on a date, or bring her some flowers when you havent done something stupid. If you are married and not having regular sex something is out of whack in the relationship. Do something to fix it! Going on some stupid website is like throwing duct tape on a pipe that burst in the basement and expecting it to make things better.

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Posted by brewergal1978 on March 11, 2009 at 9:59 a.m. (report)

Oh please. I find this website loathsome as much as anyone, but infidelity has been around since the dawn of time and will continue long after this website. Someone who really wants to cheat will find a way to do it with or without help from the internet.

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Posted by Crash on March 10, 2009 at 7:45 p.m. (report)

Beware of the scams on this site. Don't think you can just arrange a tryst so easily... You could make a date to meet someone and end up getting mugged...

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Posted by lcat on March 10, 2009 at 4:52 p.m. (report)

why are you promoting infidelity? don't get it!!?? that site's gross!

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Posted by Southern_Ex_pat on March 10, 2009 at 2:38 p.m. (report)

dvm- I would like to subscribe to your newsletter.

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