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| By Molly Snyder Edler OnMilwaukee.com Staff Writer E-mail author | Author bio More articles by Molly Snyder Edler |
| Published April 28, 2008 at 5:22 a.m. |
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If things look a little greener around here this April, there's a good reason. Our editorial staff is busy expanding the ideals of Earth Day into a month-long celebration of energy conservation, alternative transportation, recycling tips and about a million ways you can be a better friend to the planet. Welcome to Green Month, Milwaukee.
Anyone who knows me -- or reads my blogs and columns -- is aware that I'm a dedicated mom who surfs an unconventional wave now and again. For example, when I posted my blog about not caring if my kid swears -- as long as he's not name-calling -- I received dozens of irate talkbacks and personal e-mails laden with accusations about my parenting style.
This week, however, an OnMilwaukee.com reader introduced me to something that's even too much for liberal, bohemian, kooky me. She sent me the link to a book that's for sale on Amazon.com called "It's Just A Plant, A Children's Story About Marijuana."
The book, written by Ricardo Cortes, is centered on Jackie, a young girl who wakes up and finds her parents smoking pot. Hence, her mother takes her on a bike ride to visit a farmer who explains the agricultural importance of hemp, a doctor who highlights the benefits of medical marijuana and a group of police officers who talk about why the drug is illegal. (The officers are simultaneously scolding a group of African-American men for smoking weed at the time, which is stereotypical and sends a mixed message.)
I think the intention of the book is to better explain drugs to children rather than simply to say, "it's wrong." When kids don't have honest, detailed information of how and why something is forbidden, they sometimes become rebellious or choose to investigate the situation on his or her own.
I understand the need for truthful literature; however, I have a couple of major problems with this book.
First of all, the title -- "A Children's Story About Marijuana" -- suggests this might be a good read for kids of any age, when in reality, it's a topic for much older children. Young kids can't understand the subtleties of the occasional or medicinal use of drugs.
Plus, this book brings up another controversial parenting subject about whether or not to force your child into your cultural niche.
It's a fine line between teaching values and brainwashing kids. In the desire to create a "mini me," some conservatives and liberals buy books for their kids like "Why Mommy Is A Democrat" or "Help! Mom! There Are Liberals Under My Bed" which teaches kids "the valuable lessons of conservatism."
Give me a break. Kids don't need to think about paying taxes or medicinal marijuana. Plus, ideally, isn't it a parent's goal to raise a conscious person with his or her own thoughts instead of just another bleating sheep?
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Posted by LegallyBlonde on April 28, 2008 at 10:39 a.m. (report)
I still have questions about Marijuana. Perhaps I should read the book. The police scene does sound very stereotypical though, that is pretty sad.
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Posted by sijan_heights on April 28, 2008 at 9:54 a.m. (report)
This is a gateway book, it will no doubt lead children to experiment with MUCH more dangerous and harmful materials like the Bible, the Qu'ran and Dostoyevsky.
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Posted by T15 on April 28, 2008 at 8:35 a.m. (report)
Look at how many kids die from smoking pot every day because their parents didn't buy them this book. Just Kidding.
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